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Facing divorce after decades: What should couples consider?

On Behalf of | Jan 2, 2025 | Family Law

Divorcing after many years of marriage often brings significant financial challenges. In Minnesota, property division follows the principle of equitable distribution, which means assets are divided fairly but not necessarily equally. 

Couples must consider retirement accounts, pensions, and long-term investments, which can greatly impact future financial stability. Creating a clear plan for dividing these assets is essential.

Addressing emotional impacts

Divorce after decades of marriage can be emotionally taxing. Couples often need to redefine their sense of identity and rebuild their social lives. Seeking support from family, friends, or professional counselors can help manage the emotional stress during this transition.

Considering spousal maintenance

Spousal maintenance, or alimony, is often a key factor in divorces after long marriages. Minnesota courts assess factors like the length of the marriage, the standard of living during the marriage, and each spouse’s financial needs and earning capacity. Mature couples should prepare for discussions about whether spousal maintenance will be awarded and how much it will involve.

Planning for retirement

Divorce later in life can disrupt retirement plans. Couples must reevaluate their retirement goals and make adjustments to ensure financial security. Splitting retirement accounts may require a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) to ensure the process follows legal guidelines.

Focusing on future goals

Navigating divorce after decades of marriage requires careful planning and emotional resilience. By focusing on fair financial arrangements and preparing for the future, mature couples can move forward with clarity and confidence as they enter a new chapter of their lives.